At 34 I had my 1st child,my beautiful Raina Gail, at 38 I had my second,my independent,sweet Jada Lynn.I thought I could parent from what I had seen others do, knowing how my parents did it, and just the overall pride of thinking I can do anything, and be great at it! I am not great at it, I have a long way to go to greatness, but this is my journey. I am going to enjoy the ride.